April 11, 2025 Start Me Up



 To own, operate, and manage a small business, you need to begin somewhere. Randy had the benefit of having a reputation of being a top John Deere mechanic when we found ourselves in the position of going into business for ourselves. Now, almost 45 years later, we can look back at how it all began, and the people who supported and encouraged us. Without them, we'd be living in our current home, with a big empty building next to it!

Recently, yet another young family moved away from Emmetsburg after their plans to take over a local business fell by the wayside. Not knowing anything other that it had been agreed that the young man would work for a time, with the option of buying the business. What transpired I do not know, nor is it any of my affair anyway. I do know that this has happened in similar arrangements before, several times, with the owner. Now the young ones are opening their own venture, in a neighboring town. What a loss for us!

Now, this young man, like both Randy and I, came from a big family, well-known as good, hardworking, kind folks. He was well-received while working here and, I think, many were looking forward to having him raise his family and thrive as a professional. How frustrating and disappointing that had to be.

He will shine in his new community, and you never know, he may be so successful he'll open a satellite back here! I can see that happening for him.

Well, today is the end of a very challenging and upsetting week. Our "emotional support" child talked us down off the ledge and we are taking the trip. And while I did promise to keep politics out of this venue, I will just say I am flipping the universal sign of disapproval toward the White House and refusing to let the latest antics bring me down anymore. I firmly believe in Karma and the power of good.

Wow, this is really a weird post!

Happy Friday! ☘

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