November 9, 2025 The In Between

As much as I love fall, what I really enjoy the most is the changing of the seasons. This year, fall came late, and as of yesterday, left early, in my mind. 

The first snowfall of this year combined the best of fall along with the best of the upcoming winter: multicolored leaves mixing with a new snowfall is not a very pretty sight. It's as though Mother Nature couldn't make up her mind, ending with a rather unprofessional mismatch in her decor. It was a wet, heavy snow, just not enough to camouflage the fallen foliage. I now understand better why so many have brought out Christmas by now. Even I am more open to perhaps getting started! Perhaps.

Randy left early this morning to flip pancakes for Kiwanis, so I enjoyed the extra coffee and blessed quiet. At the end of GMA, I was left with that familiar heaviness of what's happening in our country. Frankly, I'll take that discomfort over being a soul-less cretin who cares for nothing any day.

After a couple of shoveling attempts outside, my head was cleared and it was too early for football. I now have the perfect solution for shining some happiness into the darkest of days: Leanne Morgan.

I happened across her newest feature on Netflix and can attest to the fact that I hadn't laughed that hard since I don't remember when. Search for her Unspeakable Things routine, it's a guaranteed riot...and not one F-bomb was dropped!

Now the sun's out, football is underway, and I've begun a new book. Happy Sunday to all! ☘

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